According
to a study conducted by the State University of New York at Buffalo and
published in the Academy of Management
Journal, researchers concluded the following statement: Leaders that were humble were more effective and better
liked (https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/12/111208173643.htm).
QUOTE
“Leaders of all ranks view admitting mistakes, spotlighting follower strengths
and modeling teachability as being at the core of humble leadership” END QUOTEThese three behaviors were powerful
predictors of their own as well as their organization’s growth.
"Growing
and learning often involves failure and can be embarrassing.But leaders who can overcome their fears and
broadcast their feelings as they work through the messy internal growth process
will be viewed more favorably by their followers.”
The
researchers found that such leaders model how to be effectively human rather than superhuman.Researcher say that we can't fake
humility. One either genuinely wants to grow and develop, or you don't, and
followers pick up on this.
In
others words, to use human wisdom: just
be your beautiful self.Don’t
pretend to be someone that you’re not.People can see through it.Humility is the truth.
So
as you can see, dear brothers and sisters, even secular studies, worldly wisdom
and non-religious leadership theory see the value of humility.Humility is a strength, not a weakness.
So
what’s humility in heavenly wisdom?
In
today’s Gospel, Our Lord said, “For everyone who exalts himself will be
humbled, but the onle who humbles himself will be exalted.”But please note something unique here.He didn’t just give us research studies on
humility.It wasn’t just a nice little
platitude or cozy statement.
He
himself is the source of humility.Jesus Christ did not just teach it or model it—he is the virtue of
humility itself.He’s not just one
religious leader among many, like Gandhi or Socrates, but he himself is THE
reason why human beings are holy.Christ
isn’t just one of the ways to the Father, he is THE way to the Father.The saints draw their humility from Him.
As
we heard in our Gospel acclamation, Jesus said, “Learn from me, for I am meek
and humble of heart.”
[When
he taught the Beatitudes, “Blessed are the poor in spirit….” He showed that he
himself is not high in spirit like a hot a hot air balloon but rather is meek
and lowly in spirit.”]
He
was humbled for only a time and season, only to be raised from the dead for
us.Jesus came down to earth to endure
all humiliation that can ever be endured from creation of the world and the
fall of Adam to the end of the world through his sacred Passion and death on
the Cross, so that we can endure any humiliation in life.
The Catechism
of the Catholic Church describes humility in this way: "The virtue by
which a Christian acknowledges that God is the author of all good. Humility
avoids inordinate ambition or pride, and provides the foundation for turning to
God in prayer (No. 2559).The Catechism
connects humility and having a prayer life.
Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI tells us:
"Humility recognizes God as he is. Humility and trust are what make a
person truly human" (Magnifacat, September 2007, pg. 41).
Pope Francis said, “The world tell us to seek
success, power, and money; God tells us to seek humility, service and love”.
The
great Protestant writer C.S. Lewis wrote, “humility isn’t thinking less of
yourself, it is thinking of your self less.”I’ll repeat that: Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself, it is
thinking of your self less.”
And here are some quotes for reflection from the lives
of the saints.
Mother Teresa of Calcutta, who will be canonized in
September as St. Theresa said, “If you are humble, nothing will touch you,
neither praise or disgrace b/c you know who you are.”
St. Augustine said, “Do you wish to rise?Begin by descending.You plan a tower that will pierce the
clouds?Lay first the foundation of humility.”
Augustine also called humility the foundation of all
the other virtues.
St. Vincent Ferrer, after whom St. Vincent’s Church in
Vallejo is named, taught, “Christ the Master of humility manifests His truth
only to the humble and hides himself from the proud.:
St. Theresa of Avila, the great Doctor of the Church,
taught, “One act of humility is worth more than all the knowledge of the world”
St. Josemaria Escriva, founder of Opus Dei, taught, “Humility
is to the various virtues what the chain is in a rosary.Take away the chain and all the beads
scatter.Remove humility and all the
virtues scatter.”
St. John Vianney taught, “A humble person, whether he
is laughed at or esteemed, or praised or blamed, whether he is honored or
despised, whether people pay attention to him or pass him by.It is all the same to him:
Finally, some practical ways to develop humility.One way is that when someone compliments you
is to acknowledge that the gift comes from God.One can either say something like, “Thank you” or “All glory to God.”
To use a phrase from the streets: “Yo gotta have the
attitude of gratitude, brutha!”
I have these because God made me this way.A humble person says, “I have a nice house,
job or degrees God gave these to me” or “I had help from others.”
In family life, one way to practice humility is to say
“Sorry” and mean it.Not “sorry the
situation evolved like this” or “sorry I got caught” or “sorry that I made you
feel this way.”
The Blessed Mother Mary is the model.Ask Mama Mary to help us with our pride or
arrogance, “Mama Mary, please help me be humble, so that I can be pleasing to
God.”
Let us ponder the words from the First Reading where I
close this homily with the Book of Sirach: “Humble yourself the more, the
greater you are, and you will find favor with God”
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