23 October 2022

Daughter Asked Me About My Favorite Saint; Gratitude

My 6 year old daughter asked me, "Tatay, who is your favorite saint?"

I said, "After Mama Mary, Pope John Paul II."

She replied, "Me, too."

I said, "Is Padre Pio yours?"

"Uh-huh, and so is St. Therese," she replied.

I then said, "Actually, a married saint is St. Louis [Martin], father of St. Therese.  He was the father of nine, like me..."

(Part of her name is Therese.)

"...except some of his kids died.  We lost 2 in a miscarriage."

"..."

"And another married saint is St. Lorenzo Ruiz.  He had three kids."

"I heard of him," she said. 

"He's my Confirmation saint."






Thank you, God.

17 October 2022

16 October 2022

15 October 2022

A Sample Snapshot of My Saturday on Chaplain Duty (Names Generally Withheld)



This is Vallejo's first African American police officer, Officer Alfred Robinson.  

His photo hangs in VPD Headquarters.  His son followed in his footsteps.  I took a photo of this after stopping by the station today for a bit.

That was part of my day.  Here's a snapshot of the rest of it from morning to night.  Names generally withheld.

After waking up in the morning, I checked in with the wife and kids.  Mass is the center of our day so wanted to make sure we did this, and today we also planned for Confession.

Then, I stopped by St. Catherine's Church to help set up for 11 baptisms.  I wasn't administering the baptisms, just helping to set up.  I noticed someone praying in church while I was setting up.  He was deep in contemplation. I remember saying to myself as I walked by how I wish I was like this guy peacefully praying.  But it did remind me to ground social action and works of charity in prayer.

We ran into each other a few minutes later.  I found out he was an MP who served in Vietnam.  He showed me a black and white photo of him, and I asked him to send it to me and he gave me permission to use it.  I didn't want to post it here just yet.  I shook his hand and thanked him for his service.  We chatted, and then I met up with my family for a bit to be strengthen by the Holy Eucharist.

Afterwards, I spoke to a few members in the community who wanted to talk to me and unload the negative things they see around them.  Greeted a mom whose son is SWAT and who said to me thank you for the Blue Mass for them.  Most of the people in the community who talk to me are not Catholics or my religious, social or ethnic tradition.  Reminds me of the business owner who the day before shared several crimes with me on her block (infant death, attempted murder, vandalism, robberies, shootings, etc.), and so I later put on my stole and prayed the "Order of Blessing for a Victim of Crime" for multiple victims at the first now-former crime scene, then blessed the neighborhood and area with Holy Water, and asked God to heal the trauma and the person imprisoned. Business owner welcomed it, along with a worker on break who shared the Scriptures with me and said thank you for asking Jesus to stop the demons in that neighborhood.  I find some people in the community want to talk as if they are unburdening themselves when I wear my field jacket on duty.  These are traumatic moments that need healing.

Later, a fire truck waved to me on my way out.  Then helped an elderly couple load their car with some heavy items but got some of the dust on me that I had to clean up later; lady was from India and said her son is serving in the U.S. Navy, and she said thank you to the officers.  Wanted to clear some debris off the road but after I turned around for it someone had already done it.  I made the Sign of the Cross multiple times over first response vehicles or accidents when I see them throughout the day for protection and healing.


Later at the station, I spoke with a few Officers and Dispatchers.  And then took that photo you see above.  Thank you for your support of the good that is done by them.

When I got home to take a little break, I received a request for a chaplain from an Officer for a woman that died.  It was the second such dispatch for me to receive lately.  When I arrived in the chaplain car, I was briefed by the Officer and ministered to the family and friends in the usual manner as trained.  Please say a prayer for those involved.

'Went to Confession with family later and made sure family rosary was done as well as family meal (which was prepped by daughter this evening), went jogging for a bit, and then usual family life time (talking about school lessons, bathing younger boys, household chores, etc.).  I think deacon wives need to be saintly women because my wife, Tove Ann, is really the heart of the family which allows us, in turn, to give that love to others in need.

'Completed written report to lead chaplain.

I think I'm pretty much ready for my homilies at 2 Sunday Masses tomorrow (10am & 12pm) but need to polish it tonight still. I used to have 1500-2000 people at 2-3 Mssses before the lockdowns a couple of years ago, but now those numbers are reduced.  Sunday Gospel is on praying always. I admit, I am behind on my prayer time as I write this, so I really need to get to it after I publish this web log

God, family, work, ministry...in that order that are mutually beneficial to each other.  One strengthens the other.

Those are some of the things I can remember at the end of this day as I write this.  Im sure I forgot some other things while leaving other things confidential and known only to God.  I consecrate and entrust this day to Jesus through the Immaculate Heart of Mary.

Thank you for your time.  Please continue to support any good our First Responders do and remember to pray for them.

Very Respectfully,

Dennis Purificacion
Police Chaplain
10-8

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(photo courtesy of VPD Lt. Robinson - added 2023)





12 October 2022

Received Request to Post This Cop Story on NextDoor Social Media Page

 


I registered with nextdoor b/c a local resident named Laura asked me to post this story on nextdoor for her.  I gave my word, so here I am.


Laura was in tears as she told me this story.  She said that someone she knew was just diagnosed with an illness.  I can't remember the name of the specific medical condition but think it had something to do with cancer.  

Her friend was still able to drive.  On her way home after receiving news of the diagnosis, Laura's friend was pulled over by a police officer.  

I'm not sure if it was the California Highway Patrol or the local agency.  I didn't ask what agency, and I didn't ask why she was pulled over.  In a way, it didn't matter.

I just listened.

Laura said that the police officer took his time talking to her friend in that encounter.  The law enforcement officer was present at this most difficult time in her friend's life listening to her.  

I don't know what was said, but I guess the impact was such that it was strong enough to share with Laura who, in turn, shared it with me.  And now I share it with you.

I know it's a simple story without a lot of twists and turns.  It's straightforward without a lot of press coverage and media fanfare.  It's just a true story of an unknown cop who took time to be with an unknown person in the community who was just diagnosed with one of the worst life changing moments one can experience.  

And that's it really.  

It's one human being with another human being.  We all share it, that experience with illness.  And being present with someone in their darkest moment of need...

...to tell them that they are not alone.

And that's who is next door.  Thank you for your time.

Very Respectfully,
Police Chaplain D. Purificacion
dennis.purificacion@cityofvallejo.net
dpurificacion@stcsv.org



09 October 2022

Milpitas High School NJROTC 1988-1992 (Posted 30 Years Later in 2022)

Cadet LTJG Dennis “Little Man” Purificacion

Milpitas High School 

Naval Junior Reserve Officer Training Corps 

1988-1992



 

Distinguished Cadet (2x)

 

 

Unit Achievement (2x)

[Military] Aptitude Award (3x)

Naval Science IV

Outstanding Cadet (2x)

Naval Science III

Outstanding Cadet (2x)

Naval Science II

Outstanding Cadet (2x)

Naval Science I

Outstanding Cadet (2x)

Exemplary Conduct

Exemplary Personal Appearance (8x)

Physical Fitness (3x)

Participation

Unit Service (2x)

Community Service (8x) with Commanding Officer Device

Academic Team (3x)

Drill Team [with Arms] (4x) with Commanding Officer Device

Marksmanship Team

[Rifle Team]

Orienteering

Recruiting

Leadership Training

[Mini-Boot Camp] (3x)

Sea Cruise

*American Legion

Scholastic Excellence Ribbon (1989)

7th Place Regional Drill Down w/Arms Competition Ribbon (1990)

Toastmaster’s Ribbon

[Public Speaking]

**American Legion

Military Excellence Ribbon (1990)

1st Place Regional Drill Down w/Arms Competition Ribbon (1991)

***Order of Daedalians

JROTC Ribbon

(1991)

2nd Place Regional Drill Down w/Arms Competition Ribbon (1992)

****American Legion

Military Excellence Ribbon (1992)

*American Legion

Scholastic Excellence

Medal (1989)

**American Legion

Military Excellence

 Medal (1990)

***Order of Daedalians 

JROTC Medal (1991)

****American Legion

Military Excellence

Medal (1992)

 

1st Place Trophy, Drill Team w/Arms Regional Competition, 1992 (Commanding Officer: Cadet Dennis Purificacion; Executive Officer: David R. Hunt)

Red CO Aiguilette (left shoulder), Drill Team w/Arms Commanding Officer, 1991-1992

1st Place Trophy, Drill Team w/Arms Regional Competition, 1989 (Commanding Officer: Cadet Dan Baggett)

Red Aiguilette (left shoulder), Drill Team w/Arms, 1988-1991 (Commanding Officers: Cadet John J. McGowan, Cadet Dan Baggett, Cadet Steve Carreon, Cadet Dino Tsai)

Silver Leadership Academy Aiguilette, NJROTC Leadership Academy, Summer 1991 (3rd Platoon, 3rd Squad Leader; 3rd Platoon Guidon Bearer) (Corps of Cadets Company Commanding Officer: Cadet Matt Percy); 3rd Platoon Drill Instructor: Corporal Arcetas, USMC

Blue CO Aiguilette (left shoulder), Community Service Commanding Officer, 1990-1991 (Executive Officer: Cadet David R. Hunt)

Blue XO Aiguilette (left shoulder), Community Service Executive Officer, 1989-1990 (Commanding Officer: Cadet Mike Takeuchi)


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Naval Science Instructor: LCDR Hal Shrewsbury, USN (Ret.)

Naval Science Instructor: CDR John J. Thomas, USN (Ret.)


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Distinguished Cadet: Awarded YEARLY to one cadet in each year group with the highest combined average for overall scholastic standing and aptitude in NJROTC unit activities (includes academics, homework, physical fitness, community service, drill, etc.)

Unit Achievement: Awarded YEARLY to cadets in good standing who were unit members during the academic year which the school earned the Unit Achievement status as determined by the Area Manager. Awarded only to those units that demonstrated exceptional performance, but did not qualify for Distinguished Unit status.

Aptitude Award: Awarded YEARLY to outstanding cadets who demonstrate an exceptional military aptitude and dedication to the NJROTC program.

NS IV Outstanding Cadet: Awarded *****YEARLY to outstanding cadets in Naval Science 4 based on citizenship, academic performance, personal appearance, and conduct.

NS III Outstanding Cadet: Awarded *****YEARLY to outstanding cadets in Naval Science 3 based on citizenship, academic performance, personal appearance, and conduct. 

NS II Outstanding Cadet: Awarded *****YEARLY to outstanding cadets in Naval Science 2 based on citizenship, academic performance, personal appearance, and conduct.

NS I Outstanding Cadet: Awarded *****YEARLY to outstanding cadets in Naval Science 1 based on citizenship, academic performance, personal appearance, and conduct.

Exemplary Conduct: Awarded *****YEARLY to each cadet who demonstrates exemplary conduct for the school year.

Exemplary Personal Appearance: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to each cadet who displays exemplary personal appearance and has worn his/her uniform on all occasions required.

Physical Fitness: Awarded TWICE A YEAR to any cadet who meets or exceeds the basic physical fitness requirements as outlined in Chapter 13 on pages 13-10/11 of the Cadet Field Manual.

Participation: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to any cadet who has participated in three events other than routine unit activities.

Unit Service: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to any cadet who has demonstrated exemplary service and dedication to the unit as determined by the SNSI.

Community Service [with Commanding Officer Device]: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to any cadet in good standing who distinguishes him/herself by dedicated and outstanding service to the community by completing 10 or more community service hours led by the unit.

Academic Team: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to each cadet who has completed three academic postals.

Drill Team [with Arms] [with Commanding Officer Device]: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to each member of a drill team in good standing who has entered competition, or performed at three or more official functions.

Marksmanship Team: Awarded WHEN EARNED, to any cadet in good standing who has entered any competition with their rifle/pistol team.

Orienteering: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to any cadet in good standing who has entered any organized orienteering competition, or who meets the orienteering qualification standards outlined on pages 9-18/19 of the Cadet Field Manual.

Recruiting: Awarded, WHEN EARNED, to a cadet who is instrumental in the enrollment of two students in the NJROTC program. Subsequent awards are given for each additional two students enrolled.

Leadership Training [Mini-Boot Camp & Leadership Academy]: Awarded to any cadet upon satisfactory completion of mini-boot camp, Leadership Academy or similar training as approved by the Area Manager.

Sea Cruise: Awarded to any cadet upon completion of an at-sea cruise (vessel must cast off lines and be underway).

American Legion Scholastic Excellence Medal (1989): The Cadet must (a) Be in the top 10% of his/her class in non-JROTC subject; (b) Be in the top 25% of his/her class in JROTC; (c) Have demonstrated qualities of leadership; (d) Have actively participated in related student activities such as student organizations, constructive activities, or sports.

7th Place Regional Drill Down with Arms Competition Ribbon (1990)

Toastmaster’s Ribbon

American Legion Military Excellence Medal (1990): The Cadet must (a) Be in the top 25% of his/ her class in JROTC and non-JROTC subjects; (b) Have demonstrated outstanding qualities in military leadership, discipline, character, and citizenship.

1st Place Regional Drill Down with Arms Competition Ribbon (1991)

Order of the Daedalians Medal (1991): During the presentation of the Daedalian JROTC Achievement Award the following should be read: “THE ORDER OF DAEDALIANS IS A FRATERNITY OF COMMISSIONED MILITARY AVIATORS FROM ALL MILITARY SERVICES. IT IS NAMED AFTER THE LEGENDARY FIGURE, DAEDALUS, AND WAS ORGANIZED BY WORLD WAR I COMMISSIONED MILITARY PILOTS WHO SOUGHT TO PERPETUATE THE SPIRIT OF PATRIOTISM, LOVE OF COUNTRY AND THOSE HIGH IDEALS OF SELF-SACRIFICE WHICH PLACE SERVICE TO THE NATION ABOVE PERSONAL SAFETY AND POSITION. THIS AWARD IS OFFERED TO ENCOURAGE THE DEVELOPMENT OF THESE TRAITS IN JUNIOR ROTC CADETS.” The certificate and/or medal is awarded to an outstanding cadet from the second year in a three-year program or from the third year in a four-year program who: • Has demonstrated patriotism, love of country and service to our nation. • Has indicated the potential and desire to pursue a military career. • Ranks in the upper ten percent of his or her JROTC class. • Ranks in the upper twenty percent of his or her high school class.

2nd Place Regional Drill Down with Arms Competition Ribbon (1992)

American Legion Military Excellence Medal (1992): The Cadet must (a) Be in the top 25% of his/ her class in JROTC and non-JROTC subjects; (b) Have demonstrated outstanding qualities in military leadership, discipline, character, and citizenship.


*****Note: Criteria of YEARLY v. TWICE A YEAR may have been different during the years 1988-1992 v. 2022.

Source: https://milpitashsnjrotc.wixsite.com/njrotc/ribbons-and-awards

Source: https://www.uniformribbons.com/navyjrotc/

Source: https://www.daedalians.org/programs/jrotc/


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