19 September 2021

Got Chaplain Call Out But It Was Cancelled Last Minute


'Got a chaplain call out for this evening.

I said that I was available to go out, and then got another message that my services were no longer needed as I was getting dressed.

And that was my duty to the people of Vallejo today as chaplain.  

Thank you, God, for this privilege. 

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Also, earlier today (not on a chaplain call out), I broke up a physical fight between two elderly ladies.  One punched the other.  

I think it would have been a different ending had I not been there.

13 September 2021

Was Asked Twice on the Same Day: "Are You a Minister?"


Wore a white shirt, green pants, and black jacket on Sunday. 
Was asked in the morning and then again in the evening, "Are you a minister?"
Replied to both timea, "I'm a deacon-- a Catholic deacon."
For morning, person told me his dad was a police chaplain.
For afternoon at the gas station, person named Motorcycle Mike asked me to pray with him.
I think both were Baptists.

22 August 2021

Homily #199: A Call For 'Bad' Catholics To Be Good Catholics & For Good Catholics To Be Fervent Catholics With The Eucharist & Mary


 
Homily #199a (12 p.m. Mass)

Homily #199b (5 p.m. Mass)

“A Call For ‘Bad’ Catholics To Be Good Catholics & For ‘Good’ Catholics To Be Fervent Catholics With The Eucharist & Mary” (Homily #199)

21st Sunday in Ordinary Time (John 6)

[Old Calendar: Feast of the Immaculate Heart]

By Deacon Dennis Purificacion

Aug. 22, 2021

 

I

Recently, I asked a group of children a question. 

I asked, “Which is worse: When a group of kids you DON’T KNOW make fun of you or when a group of kids you DO KNOW make fun of you?”  [PAUSE]

The immediate reply was that it is worse when a group of kids you DO KNOW make fun of you.  I pressed the matter further and asked, “Why is it worse when you DO KNOW the kids that make fun of you?”

They said, “Because the ones that made fun of you were your friends.  You trusted them.  You spent time with them.  There was respect.  But the other ones didn’t know you.  It hurts more when they know you and still made fun of you.”

Out of the mouths of children the truth emerges about today’s Gospel and the mystery of iniquity, the mystery of evil.  Today is the 4th time this past month that we heard from John Chapter 6 on the Bread of Life Discourse.  Here, Jesus had just explained that we must eat His flesh.  Jesus asked, “Does this shock you?”  And the reply is, “This saying is hard; who can accept it?” And then, in the ever-sad line from John Chapter 6, Verse 66: As a result of this, many of his disciples returned to their former way of life and [SLOW DOWN] no… longer… accompanied… Him. They “no longer accompanied him.”

So to bring the question with the kids up here: Which is worse, when a group of people who DON’T KNOW Jesus reject Him or when a group of people who DO KNOW Jesus reject Him, I think we see the point:  It is worse when the disciples who DO KNOW Jesus and follow Jesus, who walked with him, who spent time with him, reject Jesus.  It hurts more when your friends, not strangers, betray you.

II

This then is the ultimate mystery of evil from Jn. 6: Not that enemies of God and the enemies of the Church reject Jesus, but that it is the disciples, the baptized, the very members of the Church, esp. her leaders, those who were with Jesus, reject Jesus and his teachings.  Like Judas Iscariot, even those within the Church hurt us.

The point here is not so much on the evil doers rejecting God but on the good people rejecting God.  It is attributed to Edmund Burke for saying, “The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing.”  [REPEAT] 

St. Bernadette Soubirous, the young girl who Mary appeared to in France, said, “The only thing I fear is bad Catholics.” 

And St. Faustina, the Apostle of Divine Mercy, wrote in her Diary that it hurts Jesus more when those who believe in Him do not trust him and his goodness.

You see, in a sense, it is expected that arch-enemies outside the Church reject God.  Groups like Atheism/Anti-Theism, Satanism, Freemasonry, Communism and Socialism, etc. seek the destruction of the Catholic Church.  It is expected.  But it is not expected for a someone within who calls themselves a Catholic or Christian to betray the Church.  Our response to Jesus’ question “Do you also want to leave?” should be like Simon Peter’s, “Master, to whom shall we go?  You have the words of eternal life.”  Simon Peter’s echo the words from the Book of Joshua in the First Reading, “As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

III

So, don’t focus so much on the evils that surround us, but rather focus on the good, the truth, the beauty of God.  It’s like that scene at the end of the animated movie Mulan.  Mulan goes up to her father after defeating the villain and says, “Look, Father, I brought you gifts: the sword of your enemy.”  Instead, Mulan’s Father cares neither for sword nor enemy; he drops the sword, embraces her with such love and says to her, “The greatest gift and honor is having you for a daughter.”

God’s love for you as a baptized believer is like Mulan’s Father embracing Mulan who is an image of you, the Church.  The Church is the daughter of the Eternal Father.  We heard this in the Second Reading, in the often-misunderstood Letter of St. Paul to the Ephesians Chapter 5.  When Paul speaks of love of husband for wife, and wife for husband, he is drawing an image of Christ sacrificing for his Bride, the Church, the Body of Christ which is us.  But how many of us reflect on the Bride sacrificing back for her Beloved?  She, the Church, also shares the mission.  That is the correct biblical scholarship of the word “submission”.(1)  We modern people distort this, as if it is some egoistic Pauline power trip.  In Latin, “sub” means under, and “missio” is mission.  The Church, the wife of Christ, then is “under the same mission” of Christ.  She is sub-missio to Christ’s mission and equally shares in the mission of Christ the Redeemer, she is a type of a co-redeemer, or co-redemptrix (Latin feminine).  She is his Body and dies on the Cross, too, for her Beloved Jesus.

So those are the two main parts of this homily: Reject evil but focus on the good.  In other words, don’t be a “bad Catholic” but rather be a good or devout Catholic.  When someone looks at us, does someone say, “Yeah, that person is a devout Catholic”?  Or do they say, “Meh, that person is a so-so Catholic.”?

Of course, it’s not my job to say whether you or I are a bad Catholic – only God knows this! – but it is my job as clergy to call the bad and lukewarm Catholics to repentance and to follow Jesus once again.  You know, in the military, there’s a saying: Leave no man behind.  Bad Catholics are like walking wounded.  We can’t leave them behind.  This then is a friendly and gentle invitation to not walk away from Jesus and his teachings, especially on the Eucharist, esp. on the Real Presence, esp. on Sunday Mass.

IV

In closing, let us not be discouraged and no longer accompany Jesus.  Let us rather turn to Jesus’ Mother for help in our weakness.  “For man, it is impossible.  But with God all things are possible” (Mt. 19:26).  Last week, Aug. 15, we celebrated her Assumption (or what the Eastern Churches calls Mary’s Dormition) into Heaven, body and soul.  Aug. 22 is when we normally honor her as Queen.  Because where she is Queen, he Jesus is King.  And as the Bible says, Jesus will at the end of the world hand over his Kingdom back to the Father.  Mary said at Fatima that we would undergo these global trials and difficulties, wars and plagues, if we do not repent from our sins, do penance, and pray the rosary, if Russia is not consecrated to her Immaculate Heart.  True devotion to Mary and fervent devotion to the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist will turn back our global turmoil.  Pray the rosary.  As she said, “In the end, my Immaculate Heart will triumph.”  Mary and the Eucharist.  These two goods of Mary and the Eucharist will bring back order to the Church and even an era of peace in the world.  So don’t be afraid and pray.  Don’t focus on the evil of the waves and the winds rocking the boat of the Church, but let us keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, especially Jesus truly present in the Eucharist.  Let us accept Jesus and taste his goodness.

As the Responsorial Psalm says, let us “Taste and see the goodness of the Lord.”


(1) Eph. 5:22: mulieres viris suis subditae sint sicut Domino ("wives should be subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord," RNAB); 

Eph. 5:21: "subiecti invicem in timore christ" (submit mutually in fear/reverence of Christ or "Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ" RNAB);

 Latin: subiectum (noun), submission (English translation: subject; submit; submission) or Latin: subdita (verb): "___ is subject to"




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[Today, I also brought Holy Communion to someone at the local hospital's ICU.]




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25 July 2021

"The True Story of Little Li (Chinese Girl Martyr of the Eucharist) & Holy Communion" [Homily #198a]

(Photo Credit of Girl Under Hammer & Sickle: John Bulmer/Popperfoto)


"The True Story of Little Li (Chinese Girl Martyr of the Eucharist) & Holy Communion" [Homily #198]

By Deacon Dennis Purificacion

17th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jesus Miraculously Feeds 5,000

July 25, 2021

 


I

Before the days of online social media, the Venerable Fulton Sheen was viewed over 30 million times every week on his show “Life is Worth Living.”  One day, a few months before his death, he was asked about what inspired him to touch the lives of so many people.  They asked: Well, was it some great Pope perhaps or some other grand popular religious figure that inspired you?  The archbishop simply replied by telling the true unknown story of a little Chinese girl martyr of the Eucharist.  Her name was Little Li.

[READ THIS STORY SLOWLY AND LET IT SINK IN FOR PEOPLE.]  When the Communist Party rose to power in China, soldiers entered Little Li’s village and ordered everyone to turn in all religious objects.  [PAUSE.]  They even went into the village church and started shooting at the Tabernacle.  [PAUSE.]  [SAY THE FOLLOWING WITH EMPHASIS.]  Eventually, one of the officers took out the Ciborium holding the Eucharist and threw the Eucharist on the floor and ordered the horrified villagers watching this to not touch the Hosts on the floor.

But every day for 32 days (because there were 32 hosts), 10-year old Little Li would [SAY SLOWLY] risk her life for the Holy Eucharist.  She would sneak into the church, fall down on her knees, adore the Eucharistic Hosts on the floor for an hour, and then with her tongue she would scoop up ONE Holy Communion on the floor.  [PAUSE.]  On the day that the very last Eucharist was on the floor, Little Li snuck into the church, fell down on her knees, adored the last Eucharistic Host on the floor for one hour again, and then with her tongue received the last Holy Communion.  After that moment, one of the soldiers shot her and she died.

The soldier who did this eventually repented and said, “If every village had a girl like her, there would be no soldiers in the Communist Party.”  Venerable Fulton Sheen said that his inspiration to spend one hour of prayer before Jesus in the Eucharist every single day of his life was because of unknown Little Li, the Chinese girl martyr of the Eucharist.  [Include comment about being a married deacon with a 10-year-old daughter and how this story inspired me to prayer.]

II

With all the debates going on in our own time by our bishops and the Church about who should receive Holy Communion or not, whether this politician or that married couple, or this person or that person should receive, the story of Little Li and the blood of this martyr puts me to a heartbreaking state.  Little Li was like a Bride receiving the adorable Sacrament of Charity.  Her wedding garment was ready, properly disposed, and in the state of friendship or grace with God.  There was a “Eucharistic coherence” or a child-like honesty about whether she should receive Communion or not.  She wasn’t pompous or entitled or argumentative about her sins insisting that she should receive the gift of Holy Communion.  But she like a trusting little child of the Eternal Father, she received is pleasing to God.  Like Little Li we too are called to receive this Sacrament of Charity in the state of grace.

[SUMMARIZE @ 12 p.m. Mass if time allows: For the next four weeks, we’ll be hearing in the Scriptures about Jesus, the Bread of Life.  In today’s Gospel, we heard proclaimed the miracle of the multiplication of 5 loaves and 2 fish and feeding 5,000 people.  Biblical scholars have said that when we compare the Gospel of John Chapter 6, which we just heard, with the other 3 Synoptic Gospels of Matthew, Mark and Luke, there is a noticeable difference: Whereas, in the 3 Synoptic Gospels of Matthew, Mark and Luke IMPLICITLY prepare the audience for the Institution of the Eucharist by Jesus on Holy Thursday, the Gospel of John EXPLICTLY prepares the audience for the Institution of the Eucharist by Jesus on Holy Thursday.  In other words, it is clearer in John’s Gospel that the author is making ready, preparing and having his audience before properly disposed, to be in the state of friendship and right mind and heart before receiving the Eucharist.  When John wrote, “The Jewish feast of Passover was near,” John explicitly and directly makes a connection.  And in today’s First Reading from the Second Book of Kings, the Prophet Elisha also fed 100 people with 20 loaves and said, “For thus says the Lord, ‘They shall eat and there shall be some left over’” (2 Kings 4).]

III

So what does this practically mean for us today?  The first is to increase our faith in the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist.  When Little Li risked her life and shed her blood, she teaches us that we do not give our lives to just ordinary bread.  So the first is to be aware of not what but WHO we are receiving.  We are not receiving just a piece of bread, like the Wonder bread that we buy at a grocery store.  But we are receiving Jesus under the appearance of bread.  When the minister says, “The Body of Christ,” the reply is “Amen” not “thank you” but Amen.  This is your special moment with Jesus as you come forward.  Don’t be poorly taught or catechizing about this teaching on the Eucharist.  You know, it is said that there is poor catechetical formation about the Eucharist, where only 1 out of 3 believe in the Real Presence.  In the USA, only 1 out of 4 Catholics go to Mass (and this was before the pandemic! which is worse).  In Europe, only 1 in 10 go to Mass.  This is heartbreaking.  What a sad reality that so many of our brothers and sisters in Christ do not take advantage of the Great Sacrament of Charity and Unity that heals us, consoles us, strengthens us, and washes away venial sin.

A second practical action to work for is Christian unity, within our own parish and diocese, but also with those from other Christian communities.  The Sacrament of Charity, instead of being a sign of unity, should not be a source of division.

 

 Catechism of the Catholic Church (no. 1336) teaches: “The first announcement of the Eucharist divided the disciples, just as the announcement of the Passion scandalized them: ‘This is a hard saying; who can listen to it?’  The Eucharist and the Cross are stumbling blocks.  It is the same mystery and it never ceases to be an occasion of division.  ‘Will you also go away?” the Lord’s question echoes through the ages, as a living invitation to discover that only he has ‘the words of eternal life’ and that to receive in faith the gift of his Eucharist is to receive the Lord himself.

This is what happened to Jesus.  The Jews of Jesus’ time could not understand the gift of the Eucharist.  When they walked away from Jesus, Jesus didn’t say, “Oh, sorry guys, I didn’t mean that.”  Instead, Jesus insisted, “Amen. Amen.  I am the Bread of Life.”  So on the one hand, we should not be embarrassed in the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist, but on the other we should still respect yet call to conversion those that have walked away from this Sacrament of Charity.  Perhaps, while we do not have common doctrine with our Protestant brothers and sisters, we still have a communion love (agape) of service to the needy.  Catholics and Protestants can still work together in acts of charity and common witness, like working for the unborn, the hungry, and the poor or the sanctity of marriage, or the person needing our help at home together, and even prison and shedding blood together for the Gospel.

Third and finally, we can practically examine our consciences and, if we have any serious or mortal or deadly sins to confess, to go to Confession before receiving Holy Communion.  Otherwise, we commit another mortal sin or a sacrilege, if we receive Communion in the state of mortal sin instead of the state of grace.  We should ask ourselves:  1)  What does the Church teach me about how to live a moral life?  2)  Am I living according to these teachings?  3)  If not, how can I be reconciled to Christ once again, so as to be without stain on my baptismal garment when I receive Holy Communion?

IV

In closing, dear brothers and sisters, may we have the simple, childlike faith of Little Li, the Chinese girl martyr of the Eucharist.  When Jesus teaches us about the Eucharist and he asks us, “Will you also go away” let us persevere!  Let us love the Eucharist!  Let us endure!  Let us stay with Jesus in the Eucharist!  Like Little Li, let our response, our Responsorial Psalm to Jesus’ teaching on the Eucharist be, “The hand of the Lord feeds us; he answers all our needs.”




 

 

 

 


 

12 July 2021

18th Wedding Anniversary (July 12, 2021) & What I Did For My Birthday



On Monday, July 12, 2021, Tove Ann and I celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary.

I took the day off of work.  



We went to the 12:05 p.m. Mass at St. John's in Napa.  This fit our schedule this day.

There, we met the new parish priest, Fr. Marlon, for the first time in person.  

After Mass, Father did a blessing for a couple celebrating an anniversary for us.  David Perez assisted him as acolyte.  We also ran into some others that we know like Adrianna and Veronica.  

Some other parishioners stayed to join us in the blessing.  One lady, whose name I do not know, smiled and said some kind words afterwards.  Kinds words go a long way.


I included this black "field ring" for Father to bless alongside my original wedding ring from 18 years ago.  I know it's a bit unusual, but this is the ring I wear "in the field" for law enforcement chaplaincy.  I don't want to lose my original platinum ring which has become loose on my ring finger and has come off many times.







After St. John's in Napa, my son Peter wanted to get In-N-Out Burger for lunch.  


And then we went to one of the local parks.  Here is my better half -- just me and Tove Ann.

She keeps my head on straight.


A deacon's wife is the deacon's first bishop.  A married deacon's home is his first seminary.




My wife and kids are my priority and first vocation.  Then, service to others follows:

God, family, work, ministry.


Here we are sporting our new P-Team shirts.



Mariana drew this.  Then, we put it to a t-shirt.

 

Kids were also studying about Coat of Arms and even military history.  So they developed one for our family.


I told them we were royalty because of our baptism.  We are princes and princesses of the Heavenly Father who is King and Mama Mary is Queen.


At top of family Coat of Arms is Cross and Crown of 12 Stars to represent Jesus and Mary.

Flanking the Coat of Arms are the U.S. Flag and Philippine Flag to represent Filipino roots before coming to America.  The kids are 4th generation Americans with roots in the Philippines.  This also shows the alliance between the U.S. and Philippines that was forged in blood, particularly in World War II when Filipinos and Americans fought, bled and died together for freedom.

I told E.J. to make sure to color the top part of the Philippine flag dark b/c it means the country is in a state of peace, but when you turn the Philippines' flag upside down that means the country is in a state of war.  

In the USA, when the U.S. flag is upside down it represents being in distress.

Bottom of the Coat of Arms is the motto "Love Drives Out Fear" from the First Letter of John.  This has roots when Tove Ann and I were dating.

The arrow pointing up reminds me of St. Louis Martin, father of St. Therese, who before he died pointed up and said his last dying words to his girls, "Heaven."

The eight-pointed star is an ancient symbol of Mary under title Star of the Sea.  

"P-Team" means "Purificacion Team."

J.M.J. means "Jesus, Mary and Joseph."

There are 9 stripes for each family member: 2 parents (mom and dad) & 7 kids.



Emmanuel Jeremiah (E.J.) took the initiative with this Coat of Arms.


We then drove back to our city and then went shopping.



This is a cup set I thought of getting for my wife, but I ended up not getting it....yes, it's a marriage joke.




We had Costco pizza for dinner.

I wanted to watch "Matrix 2" with Tove Ann.  But as a family we ended up watching "Saints Perpetua & Felicity."  I was inspired after watching it and felt rejuvenated, perhaps more so than had I watched "Matrix."

Card from my wife:



My mom's choice of cards has always been meaningful over the years.






Card from kids below.

I have to re-tell the story of Tove Ann and my first act of charity as a married couple.  We were originally scheduled on the parish calendar to get married on July 26, 2003, the Feast of Sts. Joachim and Ann.  This is one of Tove Ann's feast days b/c it is the feast of Jesus' grandmother, and Tove Ann bears her name.

Well, several months before our marriage, we got a phone call from the office asking if we could move our wedding date to July 12, 2003.  There was a couple that asked for July 26, 2003.  And our time slot was the only one available.  Obviously, we could have said no.  But we didn't.    

So Tove Ann and I moved our wedding date to July 12 as "our first act of love as a married couple" for another married couple.  

Well, fast forward about 10 years later into our marriage, we found out that St. Louis and St. Zelie (who were then "Blessed" which is the step before official sainthood) also got married on July 12.  And July 12 is their official liturgical feast day by the Catholic Church.

It was a gift.

So we've told the story of our wedding date of July 12 to our kids.  And they made this for us:




We prayed the nightly family rosary during an hour of family prayer time.  

We finished reading this book together as a family.  'Took us about a month.  You can order it here.

I learned that St Louis helped his country's National Guard during time of war.  




I am grateful to the Almighty for our 18 years of ups and down, joys and sadness, rich and poor, sickness and health, for better and for worse.  I know marriage is difficult.  But I am strengthened by faith that Jesus elevated it to the dignity of a Sacrament.

So thank you for reading this story.



Then we ended the day.
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Here are some random photos over the past few months:




Mariana wrote and published (through the local printing company) her first book called "I Love Our Family."















At the beach:

At Mass:





Notes of what I did for my bday later in the month:

- began around midnight with prayer and thanksgiving to God for another year of life to serve Him
- slept in
- my daughter, Hope, asked for senorita bread for breakfast (went to nearby store b/c family wanted to get favorite onion rings and sunflower seeds for a little trip)
- went to get fish and chips out of town
- returned to town and did some window shopping
- as we got home, the ice cream truck passed by (Tove Ann and I have childhood memories of the ice cream truck so we wanted to continue that), so we got ice cream from the ice cream truck
- wife made homemade sushi with tilapia (usually we have it w tuna) and spaghetti
- E.J. made me a humongous vanilla peanut butter cookie "It's It" for cake
- Watched "Cheaper By the Dozen" for a family movie (had to correct some parts for kids)
- watched Mass followed by family rosary and prayer time
- kids did a surprise concert for me (w EJ playing his first real guitar piece to "Little Eyes")- 
- Mariana made me a small book called "Tatay's Saints Book" with my favorite saints in it
- grateful for the family greetings

Life is precious.  I am grateful for all these things God has given (and even for things He has not given).



I finished this blog on the Memorial Feast of St. Ignatius of Loyola.


A.M.D.G.

Thank you, Jesus.  Thank you, Master.  Thank you.